Wednesday, December 31, 2014

Island Adventures

December 31

Today we visited Shamian Island (you can google that and learn all about it) for pics and shopping.  Afterward we came back to the hotel for a terrible dinner experience followed by bedtime routines.  Kinda a mixed-bag of a day.

Best news of the day, we got the kids' visas so they can actually come home with us - so that's good.

Tomorrow (the 1st) will be a long day.  We leave the hotel at 05:30 and land in Houston at 2:40 pm (Air China flight 995 if you want to track us).  Doesn't sound that bad unless you remember that we get 14 hours back in the process...  It'll be a long day and we'll finish it off by working our way through immigration in Houston.

This has been a great trip but we're all ready to go home.  Will be glad when we get there...

The kids playing with some of the statues on Shamian Island.
The kids trying to play hackie sack.
Lauren helping Lora and Joshua play a game.  She had games, crafts, books, and all sorts of things to entertain them.  She's really been a lifesaver for Heather and I on this trip.
This is the garden and waterfall in the back of our hotel (hence the name "The Garden Hotel").


Tuesday, December 30, 2014

Consulate Day

December 30

Today was our appointment at the US Consulate.  Because of the adoption process between the US and China most of the immigration work is done ahead of time for our adoption.  As such, our appointment today at the consulate is almost a check-the-box activity, albeit and important one.  It happened without a hitch although I will say it was immediately obvious that we had re-entered a small part of the US because all the signage pointed us in the wrong direction.

After our appointment we went to the store to get more diapers, been going through those like crazy.  Stores here are always fun, just to see the different merchandise and foods.

After naps we walked down the street to a German restaurant we've heard about.  To my surprise it was delicious and did not taste the least bit Chinese.  The service stunk, which is atypical of our experiences here, but otherwise it was good.


Lora on the escalator on the way to the store.
Bizarre looking fish at the store.
Dried squid, for breakfast maybe.
A dried fish.  It had clearly been split in half and smoked that way.  Not sure what you'd do with it now.

Outside of the store I saw an old man carrying eggs in an unexpected, yet genius, way.

Scored some Sour Plum and Melon flavor chips at the store.  I was about out.
Also got some Chef Salad chips.


Check out all the plants on the roof-top and on balconies.  This is where people garden.

The Invalid
On the way to supper tonight we saw an invalid lying on the sidewalk, barely dressed, shaking, with a coin cup in front of him.  We both recognized this guy as being someone we saw last time we were here, two years ago.  Immediately the thoughts started:

  • Should I give this guy some money?  Why wouldn't I?  It's not like I don't have any.
  • Giving this guy money will only perpetuate this kind of activity.  I shouldn't give him money.
  • I wonder if he's even aware of his circumstances or if someone else is totally exploiting this guy?
  • The way this guy is dressed is ridiculous.  They're clearly milking this for all it's worth, what a scam.
  • Etc...
At dinner we discussed it a bit and basically discovered that we were all dealing with the same questions.  My mind starting flooding with scripture passages such as Matthew 25:31-46, Acts 3:1-10, John 5:1-15, 2 Corinthians 9:6, 1 John 3:17, James 2:14-17, etc...

On the walk back I knew we would encounter this man again and my mind went back to racing about what I should do.  What's the Christian thing to do in this situation?  We finally came to him and the kids even started asking about him.  I thought to myself "we can pray for him and his salvation" but I thought that's pretty weak.  About the same time Lauren assured the kids that we could pray for him tonight.  We walked on by and I felt this wash of guilt come over me because I didn't do anything to help this invalid, this hopeless paralytic, this guy that has no hope of survival without the kindness of others.  I mean seriously, I call myself a Christian and what am I doing to help people like this?...self-righteous hypocrite...

Then it hits me.  As I look at the little girl sitting in the stroller in front of me, this girl with arms that don't work, this girl that wouldn't survive without the intervention of others.  THIS is what I'm doing about it.

There's only one explanation for this.  Why would I worry about this invalid on the street when I'm in the process of adopting two children who are basically in his situation (dependent on the charity of others)?  What would possess me to care that much?  It's not me, I know me, it's not me.  It's Christ in me.  That's the only explanation and this event becomes a welcome assurance of my salvation and the fact that Christ does indeed live inside of me, and my wife, and Lauren.

I don't know if I did the right thing tonight.   Regardless, I will indeed pray for this man and I do indeed hope he finds Christ - perhaps you can pray for him too.

Monday, December 29, 2014

BTDT day

December 29

So December 28 part 2 never happened because, well, it just didn't.

Today was a free day for us.  Our agency planned a few outings for us so we participated.  First stop was the Guangzhou zoo.  The highlight of that was seeing more giant pandas and feeding the giraffes.  Otherwise, it was a zoo much like every other (Chinese) zoo.

Naps in the afternoon for everybody but Scott, who refused.  Then Lauren, Lora, Joshua, Jacob and I went on a river cruise.  It was the same cruise we did when we were here getting Joshua except it wasn't as crowded this time.

Heather stayed at the hotel with Scott and Mae mainly because Heather hasn't been feeling good today and didn't feel up to the cruise.  Scott's been a bit iffy as well and still runs a fever about once a day so we thought it would be good for him to stay in as well.

Overall I think we're feeling a bit road-weary.  This is day 16 of living in hotels, eating every meal in restaurants, living out of suitcases, etc...  I think if we were here to stay we would've begun to make ourselves more comfortable by now but since we're constantly moving it's hard to get very well settled in.  All the same, we're trying to make the most of it while we're here.

Here's a few pics from the day.

Random factoid #1, the Chinese name for a kangaroo literally means "big sack mouse."

Joshua feeding the giraffe.  Random factoid #2, the Chinese name for a giraffe literally means "long neck deer". 


Jacob participating in the floor show.




 

Saturday, December 27, 2014

While I'm Here

December 28 (part 1)

Today I'm hanging out in the hotel room with Jacob and Scott.  Scott has had a fever for about the last 18 hours so we thought it best for him to stay close to "home" today.  Jacob is with us because frankly it's easier for me to watch him here than it is for Heather and Lauren to watch him while they're out.  Also, Jacob doesn't care about shopping.

I thought while I was here I might address a couple comments I've seen that we haven't answered already.

I Can't Comment:
A few folks have noted that they can't seem to leave comments on the blog.  I am sorry that this is the case for some.  You should know (if you don't already) that I can't help you with this problem.  I mean, in theory I could.  But in practice you should consider it a miracle that I managed to get my computer connect to the internet in a foreign country, much less troubleshoot some problem with a website.

Jacob's Heart:
There have been a few questions about Jacob's condition.  He has a congenital heart defect.  The primary defect is that his heart and his lungs aren't connected in the normal fashion which means his blood doesn't get enough oxygen in it.  There's a few knock-on defects as well but I think it's all driven by the heart-lung connection failure.  In practical terms it's kinda like this, if he walks more than 60 feet without stopping he starts to breath hard and his fingers turn purple.  He spends a lot of time in the stroller...

Travel Doctor Ninjas

December 27

Today we took Mae and Jacob to the international travel clinic here in Guangzhou to get them approved for travel to the US.  Every American family adopting from China has to go to this single clinic (tell me that's not a racket) and they do adoptive families on Saturdays which means there were several families there from several clinics.

There is one other family from our agency that's here.  It's there first time adopting and first time in China.  It sounds like they had some culture shock in provence but are getting along better now.  Back to my story...

While at the clinic it was kinda interesting watching all the other families.  You could instantly tell who had done this before and who the newbs were.  We got both kids through he clinic quickly and were back to the hotel in a couple hours.
Mae being examined by the ENT.

Jacob loves the Dr.

Later we met up with the other family from our agency and went to dinner (late lunch) and then to the grocery store.  We had a good visit and enjoyed hearing their story.

After bathing the babies the older kids reminded us that we never fed them supper.  I took Lora and Joshua out to Subway to get sandwiches.  On the way we stopped by Mr. Pancho's Tacos and Shawarmas for a chicken shawarma.  I know, a shawarma in China, but it was super delicious.  I'll likely be a return customer later this week.

This little piece of photographic awesomeness is a man helping his son pee in the shrubbery right in front of Starbucks.   Fortunately I was Quick Draw McGraw on the camera so you can enjoy this too.

There's a wedding reception in our hotel tonight so Lora got her picture taken with the bride.


Friday, December 26, 2014

Last Stop Guangzhou

December 26

Today we flew from Chongqing to Guangzhou.  It was hard to say goodbye to Sonia and her family but it also felt nice to move along.  Guangzhou is a pseudo-familiar place and the most westernized of all the cities we've ever been to in China.  We didn't take any pics today b/c I packed up the camera.  Don't get your skirt in a bunch though we'll take a picture of something tomorrow, I'm sure of it.

As for the flight and how Jacob did on the plane, I'll just summarize it by saying it was as normal a flight as any other Chinese domestic flight I've been on.  I checked his O2 saturation a couple of times on the flight and it was actually higher than normal, go figure.

The hotel is nice and just as I remembered it.  We had a little situation with our rooms but that's been par for the course so I think I'm getting used to that.  I think we have it sorted out though so no worries.

Thursday, December 25, 2014

Christmas in China

December 25

This morning we celebrated Christmas with our new kiddos and with Sonia and her mom.  After naps we had a wonderful Christmas dinner with Sonia's family and Kishi (one of Sonia's friends that is also going to school in Houston, but here on Christmas break obviously).  Overall it was a wonderful Christmas!  Won't say much more but here's a few pics from the day.



This is what Mae looks like when she's not getting her way.


Reading the Christmas story.  Fortunately I have a Chinese Bible on my iPad so Sonia's mom was able to follow along.

All the babies got panda hats and scarves.  Here's Jacob modeling his.

This is Sonia's mom.


Jacob watching the window washer.  In case you're wondering, he's sitting on a board much like a park swing, hanging from a single rope from the roof.  After washing the window he lowers himself by giving some slack to the down line much like repelling.



Heather and I were talking about how when we were married we never imagined in a million years that we might celebrate a Christmas in China with our two new children and the family of our exchange student.  We agreed that we wouldn't want it any other way.  Loving every day!

Wednesday, December 24, 2014

Merry Christmas!


I don't normally post on this blog as Micah seems to be the creative writer in the family.  But this morning, Christmas morning, I am the first up.  Don't know if its still jet lag or two children trying to fight over who will sleep on top of me.  Its actually kind of late, but its still dark outside so it seems early.  Especially, for Christmas morning.  Although we have never let them dive into opening presents so I guess there wouldn't be much rush.  We usually take our time, eat breakfast, and then think about presents.  So MERRY CHRISTMAS!  It really doesn't seem like Christmas in some ways.  I was not frantically last minute shopping or spending all day Christmas Eve baking and getting ready for Christmas Dinner.  And we didn't have a Christmas Eve service to attend.  I was not up late last night wrapping presents, although we were still up till midnight while Micah posted a blog and I tried to get a few presents together, and watching Pacific Rim.  Have to say that isn't the typical way I would think I would find myself spending Christmas Eve, however, I wouldn't have imagined me being in China on Christmas Eve either.  And since it was the only thing in English, it was the winner.  However, we did sing Christmas carols in the van on the way back from the zoo last night and we went out with all of China to eat Christmas Eve dinner.  They don't really celebrate Christmas here and today is a work day for them, but it is very popular to go out to eat on Christmas Eve or attend a party in a hotel.  It was very crowded and we had to wait a while to be seated.  The restaurant was in a mall and there were like a zillion people.  The restaurants had stools outside them for all the people waiting to get in, which is strange because this is a land of people who don't wait in line, which makes the waiting for a table all the more interesting.  The restaurant even sent food out to pacify the masses.  Of course, while waiting, we became a spectacle.  I am starting to know what it must feel like to be a celebrity.  People who follow your every move, stare, come up to touch you, take your picture and even comment on the way you dress your kids.  The more kids the more stares. I and Lauren have been fussed at more than I can count on they way my children are dressed.  Or not dressed as far as they are concerned.  My children are freezing because you can see some of their skin on occasion.  I obviously don't know what they are saying unless Sonia translates, but I get the gist with the pointing and gestures.  I really don't mind being fussed at in Chinese.  I have no idea what they are saying so I just really pay no attention.  I do, however, take offense to their touching my children.  Mae was in a front baby carrier and she likes to lean her head back.  Apparently a lady on the subway didn't like her head back and tried to push it up and then grabbed her arm to feel how cold she was I guess.  Momma bear came out a bit.  That earned her a slight push of her hand off my baby.    Mae proceeded to put her head back just the way she likes it.  Anyway, I digress.  It is just interesting being in a fish bowl.  Scott gets most of the attention and touching.  Most want to pinch his cheeks or hold his hand.  Despite my germaphobia nature, I have tried to remain calm.  We were definitely an exhibit at the zoo yesterday!  Anyway, back to Christmas!  I miss many things about Christmas time at home, but I wouldn't change this for the world.  I got my babies with me for Christmas and while that is the gift that keeps on giving (crying, pooping, wanting to eat all the time), they are the best presents in the world.  We have a little tree in our hotel room with lights that Sonia's parents put up and the kids decorated and we will be sharing the Christmas story with Sonia's family.  We are blessed and I wouldn't have it any other way.  So MERRY CHRISTMAS from China!  I would say it in Chinese, but I don't know it.  That is Micah's department.  I do know gao gao.  That is dog (technically dog dog, but that is the way the little ones say it here) and the thing my son called every animal in the zoo yesterday.  I guess elephants and pandas all look like gao gaos to him.

Jacob's Orphanage

December 24

This morning we went to see Jacob's orphanage.  It's just north of the city in the middle of a mountaintop forest park.  As far as college campuses go it's pretty OK.  However, as far as orphanages go it's fairly exceptional.  They have sensory therapy rooms, music rooms, a tea room where they teach the children both how to serve tea traditionally and about the culture of tea in China, therapy rooms where they do everything from acupuncture to massage therapy, they have vocational training, onsite foster families, a tennis court, private security, and I could go on.  Some of the rooms were even carpeted.  Joshua's orphanage had a TV and that's it.

The lady on the right is Jacob's favorite nanny.  The other lady is the head nanny.  This is the room where Jacob slept.
 Jacob did well at the orphanage.  Being a little older than Mae, I was more worried about him wanting to go back to his nannies and not come home with us.  A few times he did seem to prefer them but never fussed about coming back to us and did well when we left.  Overall it was a good visit.

After that we did some other stuff then went back to the hotel for naps.  After naps we headed out to the Chongqing zoo where we saw giant pandas and an assortment of other animals.  If you've ever been to a Chinese zoo then you'll understand when I say that the barricades between the animals and you are not what they are in the U.S.  Some of the animals you can just reach out and touch...

The family looking at a bear who was looking for some snacks.
We made Joshua pose by this statue, it just seemed to be a good fit for some reason.
After the zoo we had dinner with Sonia and her mom and then came back to the hotel.  When we got back we went through diapers again and cleaned up our third blowout of the day (Mae this time).  I think Heather came to the realization this evening that our lives (hers mostly) are going to be dominated by trying to feed kids and cleaning up poop - at least for the next few years.  Fortunately they're adorable so we don't mind.

The kids brought some "reindeer food" with them from home.  Since there's no yard to sprinkle it on we let them sprinkle it out of the hotel window.  Nobody below seemed to mind or notice.

Joshua sprinkling reindeer food out the window while Scott looks on.

Tomorrow is Christmas and we'll be celebrating the birth of our savior, Jesus Christ like many of you.  In some ways this will be like no other Christmas any of us have had before.  In other ways it'll be just like all the rest, spent with loved ones.  Wherever you are and however you celebrate, I hope you have a Merry Christmas and more importantly I hope you know what you're celebrating.

Speaking of, I have to tell you I was so proud of Heather the other day.  We were signing paperwork with our guide and he was asking about Christmas.  Heather immediately started walking him through how the real reason to celebrate Christmas is because Christmas makes Easter possible.  She went on the explain the gospel to him and we had what I would call a significant discussion with him about how Christ saves and what makes Christianity stand apart from every other world religion.  It's really hard to hear from people here how they try to believe in everything (which is the same thing as not really believing anything).  We pray that God will work in their hearts and I hope you'll join us in that prayer.

Our love to you all!

Tuesday, December 23, 2014

Jacob's Rescuers

December 23

Today we went back to the civil affairs office to finalize Jacob's adoption.  On the way we stopped by his abandonment/finding spot.  It's only a couple blocks from the civil affairs office.  The experience we had at Mae's finding spot set the bar pretty high so I tried not to get my hopes up that we'd have a similar experience.  What happened instead was just plain unexpected.

When the van got there Heather, Jacob, our guide, and I got out and walked back to the building where he was left.  It sets back off the road behind another smaller building.  We took a few pictures and of course drew a little attention, it's not everyday that westerners come to that building to take pictures I'm sure.

Our guided asks one of the ladies if she remembers a baby being left there two years ago, she doesn't.  Not surprised - but what happened next....  An older lady came over and said she DID remember.  As a matter of fact, she is the one that found Jacob.  She went on to describe how a man brought Jacob to her little grocery store, asked for some hot water for a bottle, made the bottle, and then asked her if she would watch the baby for a minute while he went to get some paperwork from the hospital (there's a hospital about 100 yards away).  As soon as she took the baby the man ran away and never came back.  Jacob was left with some formula, a bottle, a note about his birthday, and a few other small items which the orphanage now has.  The other lady that helps run the grocery relayed the same general story as she was there that day too.  They described the man that left him but of course there's no way to know who he is.

Holy smokes!!!  We got the meet the lady that rescued Jacob.  You've got to be kidding me!?!?  I can't even tell you how cool this was.

The lady with us is who took Jacob from the man.  The lady in the background in the other storekeeper that was there.  This is their small grocery store at the base of a high-rise apartment building.

In the course of speaking with these ladies a crowd was starting to form around us.  Men from the construction crew next door even stopped what they were doing and came of to check it out.  This was becoming a scene by the time we left.

Next we went to the civil affairs office which, relatively speaking, was uneventful other than the fact we are now Jacob's official parents.
Getting the adoption certificate from the Official.  Every Provence does it differently.  Here they made a formal ceremony out of it.

After we got back to the hotel we met up with Sonia's family and went out to dinner at a place along the river.  It was delicious and we had a great time.

Us with Sonia's family.  Her dad is front and center, her grandma is in the red jacket back right, her mom is next to her grandma, and Sonia is next to me.  In the background is the Jialing River and the central part of Chongqing City.

This was a wonderful day.  Scott's tummy is doing better and he's more like his normal self.  My tummy is doing better which means I can go back to abusing it (I bought some seaweed flavored Pringles at the grocery store today, we'll so how that goes).  Everyone else is pretty well on par.


Merry Christmas from the Shanks'!  Again we took this prior to breakfast this morning to minimize the amount of food stains in the photo.  Couldn't be happier about my family.

Monday, December 22, 2014

Dressing for Winter

Not sure if you noticed on the previous post but Jacob had several layers of clothing on when we got him, five to be exact.  He had a fleece, then two layers of wool sweaters, then a quilted vest, then a huge quilted coat.  He also had long underwear pants under some lined denim pants.  And the hat that you can see in the pics.

How close to absolute zero was it today, you might ask?  Low 50's, fahrenheit.

Mae was dressed very similarly when we got her although it was in the high 30's there at the time.  As soon as we got Mae we started dressing her the way we dress all our kids - comfortable for indoors with enough removable layers (coats, gloves, hats) to be warm outside.  This is such a different approach to what people do here that several times Heather has been yelled at (in Chinese of course) by older women for not having enough clothes on our children.  Even our driver today fussed at us for not putting enough clothes on her.  He was surprised when we got back to the hotel that her hands were warm, since we didn't have 8 layers of clothes on her, for the 50 degree weather.

One other thing we've noticed from both our trips to China is that when the Chinese turn the heat on in a room, they turn it waaaayyyy on, like baking the Christmas ham kinda hot.  Likewise, when they decide not to turn the heat on, it's as freezing inside as it is outside.  There seems to be no in-between.  The thermostat has not made its way to China.

I don't say this to say that China is weird.  I mean, I do think they're weird but I'm sure they think we're weird.  We might both be right.  Having grown up in yankee country and now living in Houston I've already come to realize that people handle cold weather differently.  However, being yelled at by a 60 year old Chinese van driver for not putting gloves on my 1 year old Chinese daughter's deformed hands because it's 52 degrees outside is new.

Gotcha (#2 of 2)

December 22

Today we got Jacob!

This is when we first met him.
On the ride home.  He kinda went into zombie-mode after his nannies left.
Heather is happy, Jacob is somewhere else.
Back at the hotel, having snacks and playing.  Lauren had a couple toy cars with her (because she's a better parent than we are I guess).  Once he got those he started to disengage zombie-mode.

Mae learned to pout her lips.

Here's the whole family ready for bed.


Jacob did really well today.  He was pretty docile until he started to realize that he wasn't going back to his nannies.  He calmed down quickly after they left and the he transitioned into what I call zombie-mode (where he emotionally disengages with reality).  Once we got back to the hotel he started to interact with us.  Within a few hours he was laughing and smiling and playing with toys.  He has latched on to me more than Heather it seems but he's OK with her as well.  Overall he did outstanding and we made it through the first evening.

I think the biggest challenge for the night was bath time and bed time.  It might take us two hours to get everyone ready for breakfast in the morning.  Hard to say...

So that's it, we got our kiddos.  We finalize Jacob's adoption tomorrow and we'll get to see his finding spot.  The remainder of our time here is all about getting the paperwork (passports and visas) to bring these kiddos home.

Sunday, December 21, 2014

Day of Rest

December 21

Given the day we had yesterday and the night we had last night we elected to just stay close the hotel room today and let everyone rest.

Good thing we did, for Scott's sake anyways.  He threw up at breakfast and then blew out his diaper again around midday.  Pretty awesome.

Sonia came over this afternoon.  Everyone except Scott and Micah went out exploring this evening, including a ride on the Chongqing monorail.

On the Monorail

Perhaps everyone that travels to a foreign country feels the same way but I find China to be a real assault on the senses.  Everything tastes "Chinese", there's constant honking and squealing brakes, cigarette smoke everywhere, smog, constant sound of people speaking Chinese in my ears, every building has either too much heat or no heat, you can't just drink a glass of water, etc...  It doesn't even matter how much you're enjoying it all, the fact is it's different and you find yourself just looking for something "normal" for a sensory breather.  Today, lounging around the hotel room with Scott served as such a breather for me, it was welcome.

Tomorrow we get Jacob.  Heather and I discussed on the way to Chongqing how the easiest part of this trip is now behind us.  I guess we'll see.  Either way we pray for God's grace in raising these children, we'll sure need it.

Saturday, December 20, 2014

Nanjing to Chongqing

December 20

Today we traveled from Nanjing to Chongqing.  I saw a documentary recently during which Chongqing China was referred to as "the largest city most Americans have never heard of."  I'd say that's about right.  Here's the high points and the low points for the day.

High: Scott didn't have a blowout on the plane (he's gotten some kind of stomach bug).
Low: Scott did blowout his pants during the car ride from the airport to the hotel.  Heather wrapped him in a changing pad to try and protect the stroller from the poo.
Scott sitting on a changing pad.  A bath followed shortly.

High: We got to reunite with Sonia and meet her parents and grandma.  They took us out for a very nice dinner.
Low: We can't really converse with her parents or grandma.  I didn't mind not being able to converse with people here until there was someone I actually wanted to talk to.  This is frustrating.
Dinner with the Zeng family.
High:  We saw a lady helping her granddaughter pee in a trash can.  Here's the story: We were walking through the mall (it's a nice mall, think Houston Galleria) when we spot a woman shucking some little girl of her pants.  She then grabs the girl by the legs and then quickly carries her over to the nearest trash can where she holds the girl in a squat position while she pees in the trash can.


Low:  We saw a lady helping a little girl pee in a trash can in a shopping mall.

High: The beds here are much softer.
Low: Lora threw up in hers about 4:00 this morning.

High: I'm running out of these.
Low: Scott threw up on himself on the way back from dinner.  Micah and Lauren aren't feeling 100% either.

Every trip like this has some hard days.  Today was a hard day.  I'm hoping Sunday is better.

Friday, December 19, 2014

Xuanwu Park

December 19

Today was another free day.  Today we visited a park at the north end of the city, visited a pearl shop, and then went freelance for lunch.  Here's some pics of our day.

Took this last night before bedtime.

At the entrance to Xuanwu Lake Park.  This is the North gate to Nanjing city.  This park was only accessible to the Imperial family until about 100 years ago.

Lora and Joshua in front of the Lotus Fairy.

China is a constant juxtaposition of old and new.  For instance, here you have a 1500 year old Imperial garden with a hot-dog truck in it, in front of a Ming Dynasty city wall in front of the tallest building in the city (450 meters).

A wishing garden.  All the red tags are wishes that people have placed in the garden.  Everywhere you turn here there's another temple, or wishing garden, or good luck charm.  Yesterday we saw a lady praying at a rock while rubbing it.  In the gift shop in our hotel there is a idol of some kind for sale and the shopkeeper placed offerings in front of it.  At the city gate yesterday, there were fruit offerings in front of a painting of some guy that helped build the wall.  These people are desperately looking for something to hope in.
Mae at Xuanwu lake park

Lora and Joshua in front of a balloon thing.  It's part of the Christmas decorations that are going up in the mall across from our hotel.

Lora getting her picture taken for about the 500th time today.  She had just finished eating some kind of chocolate ice-cream bar, hence the chocolate ring around her mouth.

The gang in front of a local dumpling and noodle restaurant.  Notice how the entire front of the store is open.  This is pretty common.  No heat inside.  Everything here is very open-air.

This was taken out front of the restaurant where we ate last night.  There's a lot of (what I assume to be) salt-cured meats hanging in front of shops and outside of apartments.

By the way, for breakfast I had some duck feet braised in "brown sauce", among other things.  The dietary options here really are endless.

Mae is doing better every day.  Today she has had a much better appetite and she has warmed up to me a lot more.  She enjoys the other kids mostly but is definitely not afraid to assert herself.  Overall, she's a real fascinating girl who's had to adapt both to orphanage life and her non-functioning arms.  It'll be a real treat to watch her grow and develop.

Tonight is our last night in Nanjing.  Tomorrow morning we board a plane for Chongqing.  I think I'll miss Nanjing.  I really like this city more than the others I've been to in China.  All the same we're very excited about reuniting with Sonia and meeting Jacob.